#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨
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Putting YOU on the List

January 4, 2011 · Narrative

Without making sweeping generalizations, I think it’s safe to say that most women are good at nurturing.  Whether they’re taking care of their kids, their husband or their cat, women are seemingly always doing for others.  It’s in our DNA.  One of my resolutions for 2010 was to put ME on the list.

In the past 12 years or so, I was focused on taking care of the kids and The Ex, as any good mother and wife does.  But I forgot me. I didn’t make the list.  Not nearly enough.  Last year, I changed that… and was so much better for it.  A better me.  A better mom.  A better everything.  So last night, when a friend asked me about my New Years’ resolutions, my answer was simple.  More of the same.

As women, we need to give ourselves permission to be on our list.  To make us a priority. We’re always so busy taking care of everyone and everything else.  What about us? Whether it’s making time to exercise regularly, sit down with a cup of coffee and a good book or treat ourselves to a manicure, we need to be on the list. That’s not to say that you need to stop taking care of others.  Far from it.  We just need to focus on making ourselves just as important.  After all, if you go down, the whole darn ship goes down with it.

Last year, I made going to the gym uber-important, and reaped the rewards for it.  It was a bit of a juggle trying to fit everything in and budget-wise, but it worked out.  This year?  Much of the same.  That endorphine blast that kicks in at the end of a work-out makes it totally and 100% worth it.  There is nothing like it.  And this year, the gym routine continues, now more than ever.

How else do I make myself a priority?  I’ve always loved journaling and writing.  Last year, I bought a notebook in January and started filling it with quotes I liked, affirmations, aspirations, goals and dreams.  This year?  Much of the same.  Madeline and I went out at lunchtime to get this year’s notebook and, of course, she needed her own too.  Mine was a pretty pastel flowered cover.  Hers?  A shocking green frog.  Both make us happy.  And as I go through 2011 and jot down things that inspire me and goals I hope to accomplish, it will be a wonderfully reflective journal to look back on at the end of the year … to see how far I’ve come.

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A Few of My Favorite Things

December 23, 2010 · Narrative

As I was putting away groceries tonight, I got a little inspiration for tonight’s post.

These are a few of my favorite things. Not “clean eating.”

But it’s a holiday.

And there will be dip.

And dip needs a dipping vehicle.

And carrots alone just won’t do.

I’d love to hear your favorites.

Hint of Lime Tostitos

Tostito Scoops

Pretzel Sticks

People ask me all the time how I can manage to lose weight with all the baking we do.  It’s simple.  Salt is my poison.  Which is exactly why the above types of things only appear in the house on special occasions.

Project 365
December 23, 2010, Photo #318

To Do ListMy list for today during my lunch break and after the gym.  And would you believe I managed to get it all done?  I was aiming to get through the list so I didn’t have to take the kids out tomorrow, but I forgot juice and dog food, so there will be one quick trip. I’m still in desperate search for the Ramona and Beezus DVD (because now that we’ve rented it three times I think it’s safer to just own it!), but have come up empty, and will just get it after Christmas for a just because or Valentine’s Day present.

Christmas Eve Menu

Regular readers know that we celebrate the Feast of the Seven Fishes on Christmas Eve, and we also have 13 desserts (a French tradition). Cioppino will be taking care of five of the seven fishes, with the last two fish appearing in Spumo di Tonno and Smoked Salmon Spread.  There will also be Spinach Artichoke Dip, Spinach Cheese Squares, fresh fruit, Macaroni and Cheese and Herbed Pull-Apart Rolls.  My sister is taking care of cheese and crackers, and my Mom is handling the desserts.  Ignoring my Mom’s comment about me being a glutton for punishment, there will even be a craft for the kids before dinner tomorrow.  God willing.  Can’t wait to get the festivities underway… what’s cooking for your holiday celebration?

Ten on Tuesday

November 30, 2010 · Narrative

Mason Jar Frappuccino

It’s been awhile since we’ve done one of these, so I figure we’re due.   Or overdue if you’re a freak for consistency.

1.  We got our first Christmas card in the mail yesterday.  Somebody is clearly an overachiever.  Especially since it came from California, which means she had to have mailed it before Thanksgiving.  Way to make the rest of us look bad, eh?

2.  Our Christmas cards are NOT, I repeat, NOT, in the mail yet.  Don’t look for them in the next week or two either.  Shooting for mid-December.  We (and by we, I mean Nick and one of his friends) did manage to get up the kitchen Christmas tree.  Surely that must count for something?  And the stockings.  And the lights outside.

3.  When I was married, decorating outside was a small battle.  Half of the decorations would go up maybe the second week in December.  And the rest the week of Christmas.  And then they would stay up until about mid-February.  I was not responsible for outside decorating.  Merely the nagging to get said outside decorations done.  Clearly there are some positive aspects to being divorced.  Who knew?  (tongue firmly in cheek)  Both last year and this year, our decorating started the weekend after Thanksgiving and was completed within a week.  More time to enjoy it and all.  Sometimes it’s better to be responsible for everything. Mentally exhausting as all get-out, but at least things get done.

4.  Madeline is feeling a bit better today.  Today she didn’t tell me that she was sick at all.  We did manage to get an Icee, mostly because I’m convinced it’s a good way to soothe the aching throat of my littlest little.

5.   Did you know that I still sell Tupperware?  Just in case it happens to be the perfect gift for someone on your holiday list (it is, isn’t it?!), you can check out all their newest products at that little linky link and order right from that comfy chair you’re sitting in.

6.  Last week, when I saw Nick’s teacher, I told her that one of my goals is to get off her speed dial list.  Because surely there is another parent that needs a regular phone call, yes?  This week, my goal was to go the whole week without a phone call.  As of yesterday afternoon, this week’s goal was already shot to heck.  Now I must focus on next week.  They’re not all bad phone calls, per se, just interesting challenges, questions and situations that keep popping up.  I’m just CERTAIN that it’s someone else’s turn.  It’s got to be!

7.  I have yet, knock wood, to get one phone call this school year about Madeline, my little firecracker.  I realize the year is still young and I may have just jinxed myself, but go ahead, bring it.

8.  The kids and I watched the Ramona and Beezus movie on Saturday night.  Loved it.  All of us did.  The quietest I’ve ever seen my kids for a two hour stint.  The Ramona series was a favorite of mine growing up.  Even though I’m the older sister, I, unfortunately, probably acted more like Ramona.  And my daughter?  Yeah, that’d be her too.  With a little Dennis the Menace throw in for good measure.  Good thing she’s so darn cute.

9.   Last week, it was 23 degrees here in the Garden State.  Tomorrow?  It’s supposed to be 60.  No need to wonder why we’re nursing head colds and coughs in the O’Malley household.

10.   And lastly, the recipe I promised you from yesterday.  I don’t drink coffee.  Or tea.  A near Hot Drink Aversion straight across the board.  I don’t mind the taste of coffee though and am mildly hooked on Frappuccinos and their familiar cousins.  I found this Mason Jar Frappuccino on the Tasty Kitchen website awhile back, and it definitely does the trick.  Sometimes I add extra ice and mix it up in the blender for a frostier version.  And then, of course, a small drizzle of chocolate syrup on the top to finish it off.

Project 365
November 30, 2010, Photo #236 and #237

Icee Makes It Better

Our own Icee Elixir, good for what ails you.

So Tired

For my Mom superstitious readers, I promise she did not open the umbrella in the house. Apparently, though, it is the perfect accessory for an afternoon nap on the couch.  Who knew?

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨

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