#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨
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How to Be a Cool Kid 101

December 14, 2007 · Convos with My Kid

Last week, Nicholas was getting ready for school and as I put his stuff in his backpack, he exclaimed, “Mama, not THAT backpack. I’m not using THAT backpack anymore.””No? Why not?”

“‘Cause that’s not the kind that cool kids use,” said with full eye roll, thankyouverymuch. “Cool kids use the kind like my other backpack,” as he raced upstairs to find it.

For thems not in the know, the “other” backpack, which has now been deemed cooler than cool, has wheels and a pull-up handle. ‘Tis NOT the kind that you just sling on your back. Who knew?

We pulled up in front of the school and he jumped out of the car and handed me his backpack.

“You can’t carry it?”

“No, Mama, it’s too heavy. You can.”

Now far be it from me to argue with a “cool kid,” but exactly how cool is it when your mother is behind you dragging your backpack?

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  1. erelliot@ncsu.edu says

    December 14, 2007 at 3:11 am

    That’s ironic because when I was in high school, only about 3 or so years ago, the book bags with the wheels and handles weren’t seen as cool. How things progress!

    Explorations in Life

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  2. Tracy says

    December 14, 2007 at 5:14 am

    My 10yo son insisted on a backpack with wheels this year. A few months later, we both hate it. It’s a pain to get in and out of the car and it’s completely torn apart. I’m hopefully this teaches him to question what’s cool…

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  3. Barbara says

    December 14, 2007 at 1:08 pm

    That’s the cutest story! I can see why the ones with wheels would be better for kids. Health studies have shown how the traditional over the shoulder backpacks were causing back problems in kids because they were too heavy. Tell Nick, good on ya! Wheel away dude!

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  4. Anonymous says

    December 14, 2007 at 2:52 pm

    That’s so funny. This is a post you can show him years from now and still laugh. By the way, The Girlfriend woke up today at 7:30am and wanted to call Nicholas. It was hard to get her not to call him. lol So cute, they miss each other.

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  5. Cate says

    December 14, 2007 at 3:27 pm

    erelliot – yeah, I would have thought the other ones were cooler too, but apparently I’m now too old to know. ;)

    Tracy – Luckily we still have the other one so if it becomes cooler to have a backpack not in shreds, we’re all set. ;)

    Barbara – And he was so serious about it!

    The Neighbor (Wife, I’m assuming?) – good thing she didn’t call since his school had a delayed opening and he managed to sleep until 9 am. :) I’m sure they’ll make up for lost time this weekend. ;)

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  6. Anonymous says

    December 14, 2007 at 6:04 pm

    Nick you ROCK!

    Tia aka The Sister In-law

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  7. Farmgirl Susan says

    December 14, 2007 at 6:40 pm

    LOLOL, that is too funny.

    But now I realize I am beyond uncool–I didn’t even know backpacks now came with wheels! (Way back when I was a kid we would have called that ‘luggage.’ ; )

    Reply
  8. Siri says

    December 19, 2007 at 1:50 am

    Thats so cute..:)

    ~ Siri

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I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨

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