#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨
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A Bittersweet Birthday

August 1, 2005 · Narrative

Happy Birthday to Me! Unfortunately, my grandmother died this morning, so the celebration was bittersweet. God has a wicked sense of humor, that’s for sure. Her health has been declining lately, and my sister and Mom got the opportunity to visit her last week in Colorado. I’m glad for that. Sigh… anyways…

So cracking one eye open at the early hour of 8 am this morning (Nicholas not being able to wait any longer to sing “Happy Birthday”), I spied this on the dresser.

Now there’s a nice way to start the day! The Husband baked the French Toast with Pecans that I made last night, and Nicholas and I had breakfast in bed. I’ll post the French Toast recipe tomorrow; it’s going to be a definite repeater, and is perfect for a brunch or holiday breakfast, and heck, any other time you want to indulge. Paula Deen has a similar recipe, but I like this one better.

Went to the Farmer’s Market this morning to pick up some more fresh veggies. I got 2 lavender plants, fresh baked bread, pitted Kalamata olives, green peppers, tomatoes, and a few herb plants. All the herbs plants that I’ve bought there are really thriving — maybe my thumb isn’t quite as anti-green as I thought!


Farmer’s Market Offerings


Tomato Varieties


Pick a Pack of Peppers

For my birthday dinner, we ended up getting Chinese food and eating here, instead of going out. I actually made the decision before I found out about my grandmother, but given the circumstances, it was much nicer this way. There’s a local Chinese restaurant that has superb food, but they’re a little pricier and don’t deliver, so we don’t often get food from there. Today we did … a little bit of everything, eaten family-style: Twice Baked Pork, General Tso’s Chicken, General Tso’s Shrimp, General Tso’s Beef, Scallion Pancakes, Grand Marnier Shrimp, Steamed Dumplings, Fried Dumplings, Dried Sauteed Green Beans, Shrimp Toast, Sesame Noodles with Peanut Sauce, Shrimp with Lobster Sauce, Fried Rice, White Rice, Brown Rice … I’m probably forgetting a few things, but suffice it to say, we ate well, and I know what we’re having for dinner tomorrow night! I’ve never had the Grand Marnier Shrimp before and really liked it. Wouldn’t think to mix fruit with shrimp like they did (strawberries?), but it worked.

My sister made Coconut Cupcakes for Nicholas’ birthday (a Barefoot Contessa recipe) and my Mom brought a Chocolate Cream Pie and Cannoli Cake for my birthday. Needless to say, Nicholas is still confused about whose birthday is when, considering we had a cake for him yesterday at the kids’ party, cupcakes for him today with my family … and it’s still not even his birthday yet!! Two more days to go.

My sister and brother-in-law got me 3 great food-related books, and surprisingly enough, I don’t have any of them! They bought me Betty Crocker’s Cooky Book, Endangered Recipes and Jane & Michael Stern’s RoadFood. Two of these were actually on my list of things to buy, and I’m really looking forward to delving into them. The Cooky Book has been around since 1963 – anything that has stood that kind of test of time has got to be good! They also got me a bunch of cookie decorating tools, cutters, tips, sprinkles and more. Perfect! My parents got me a vacuum sealer (a must for my kitchen!), gorgeous earrings, tons of shoes, a tote bag, a cutting board, and placemats. And then with Nicholas’ birthday stash from everyone… the living room looked like Christmas morning! We’re definitely going to have fun playing with all our new “toys.”

OK, all for tonight … I’ll be back tomorrow. Head hurts a bit and I’m trying to get to bed early tonight since I feel a sore throat coming on. Until tomorrow…

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Comments

  1. linda says

    August 1, 2005 at 3:05 am

    Happy Birthday. I am so sorry it was bittersweet.. I posted wishes for you on the BB as well..

    Reply
  2. Stephanie says

    August 1, 2005 at 3:12 am

    Sympathies to you on the loss of your grandmother…

    Reply
  3. Jeff says

    August 1, 2005 at 3:42 am

    Very pretty birthday flowers.

    So sorry to hear about your Grandmother.

    Reply
  4. Joe says

    August 1, 2005 at 3:50 am

    Very sorry to hear about your loss.

    Reply
  5. Tami says

    August 1, 2005 at 4:23 am

    I’m sorry to hear about your grandmother, especially today of all days. I’ll be thinking of you.

    Reply
  6. Jennifer says

    August 1, 2005 at 6:23 am

    So sorry for your loss.

    It sounds like you were able to have a wonderful birthday in spite of your grandmother’s passing. May you be blessed with many sweet memories of her.

    Reply
  7. Erika says

    August 1, 2005 at 1:23 pm

    Happy Birthday! Overnight french toast in bed with my son sounds like a divine way to start the day. So sorry about your Grandmother. (hugs).

    Reply
  8. Piggy says

    August 1, 2005 at 1:44 pm

    Happy belated birthday! Sorry to hear about your loss…

    Reply
  9. gemma says

    August 1, 2005 at 2:50 pm

    Happy Birthday! I too am very sorry about your grandmother. How fortunate you were to see her so recently though. . I wish you the best, you are in my thoughts.

    Reply
  10. jtoepfert100 says

    August 1, 2005 at 6:19 pm

    So sorry to hear about your grandmother. Thinking of you.

    Reply
  11. thecoolestblog says

    August 1, 2005 at 7:12 pm

    Cool blog and cool message

    Reply
  12. Mel says

    August 1, 2005 at 11:09 pm

    Happy Birthday. The french toast sounds yummy.

    So sorry to hear about your grandmother. Thinking of you.

    Reply
  13. Anonymous says

    August 1, 2005 at 11:46 pm

    Sorry about your grandmother, MISSINDI. Your birthday sounds like it was wonderful, in spite of. The flowers are beautiful! You’re a lucky lady!

    Reply
  14. WhiteTrashBBQ says

    August 4, 2005 at 6:13 pm

    Sorry I’m so late with this.

    Happy Birthday.

    And please accpet my sympathy for the loss of your grandmother. With all the losses in my life, the loss of my grandmother was the hardest to take.

    Reply

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨

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