#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨
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The Husband Cooks Tuesdays?

September 7, 2005 · Narrative

Came home from work today and followed a trail of red roses from the bottom steps by our driveway all the way up to the front door, continuing inside to the kitchen. And there in the kitchen, The Husband stood cooking dinner. Not a bad way to come home at the end of a long day! One of the local grocery stores had filet mignon on sale for $4.99, so when I was there over the weekend, I bought a beef tenderloin for them to slice up. The Husband made filet mignon with yellow rice for dinner and continued the rose theme … everywhere I looked in the house, there were roses. No complaints here!

Now most days when The Husband cooks, I still feel the “itch” to do something in the kitchen, so I made dessert, choosing an Oatmeal Cake. A new recipe for me, it’s ooey gooey goodness that will definitely be repeated. Yum, yum, yum, triple yum. Again, a dangerous recipe to have around the house, so I called up The Neighbor and gave away a bunch of it. Nicholas was happy, of course, because it meant another chance to see his girlfriend. ;)

Nicholas and Bella, our dog, both survived their first day in school, although it was quite a feat to get them both out of the house on time this morning. The fun begins again tomorrow. Tune in for The Husband Cooks Wednesdays! Until then…

The Best Ever Oatmeal Cake

1-1/4 cups water
1 stick of margarine
1 cup uncooked oatmeal (quick cooking oatmeal)
2 eggs
1 cup white sugar
1 cup brown sugar
2 tsp cinnamon
1 tsp soda
1 tsp vanilla
1-1/3 cups flour

Bring to boil water and margarine. Add oatmeal. Take off heat and cover; let set 20 minutes. Stir together other ingredients. Add to oat mixture. Pour into greased 9×13 pan. Bake at 350 degrees for 35 minutes.

Topping:
1 cup brown sugar
1 cup Angel Flake coconut
1 cup chopped nuts
1 stick melted margarine
1 tsp vanilla
2 egg yolks

Before cake is done, make topping. Spread over hot cake and put back in oven about 7-10 minutes until top is bubbly and golden brown.

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Comments

  1. Mona says

    September 7, 2005 at 3:12 am

    Wow, what a fun dinner you had! My dad and I just went out for a nice local casual dinner at New Canaan’s Cherry Street East. No roses were involved…
    That oatmeal cake looks awesome, and so easy! We always have tons of the quaker oatmeal cylinders lying around, my mom just eats oatmeal the old school way (heated up plain with some boiling water) and I’m sure she’d love it a la cake version! Thanks for the tip!

    Reply
  2. Stephanie says

    September 7, 2005 at 3:29 am

    How sweet!

    Before I die, I hope to be treated to the full-on rose scenario…just once, and I swear I’ll be happy.

    Reply
  3. joey says

    September 7, 2005 at 7:08 am

    The rose petals bit was so incredibly sweet! You lucky thing!

    And that oatmeal cake looks all gooey and sticky and wonderful…yum! :-)

    Reply
  4. Punky says

    September 7, 2005 at 3:53 pm

    Your husband is such a sweetheart. Is he teaching any “good husband” classes anytime soon? I want my fiance to know that he is welcome to do these kinds of things once we are married.

    Reply
  5. amateur says

    September 7, 2005 at 6:26 pm

    Wow, that cake looks wonderful. I just printed off the recipe and may be making a run to the store tonight to make it!
    Thanks for all the great, easy-to-do recipes you always provide.

    Reply
  6. Cate says

    September 8, 2005 at 2:14 am

    Amateur – thanks for visiting! Let me know if you make the cake. :)

    Punky – LOL. I’ve learned that they really can’t read your mind, so the more clues you give them, the better!

    Stephanie — we’re gonna have to work on Matt! Happy, happy birthday!

    Mona and Joey – do try the cake. I don’t think you’ll be disappointed.

    Reply
  7. Anna says

    September 8, 2005 at 12:38 pm

    Sweetnicks, that oatmeal cake is also good with cream cheese icing.

    Reply
  8. s'kat says

    September 8, 2005 at 3:04 pm

    What a sweet thing to come home to! Dinner looked good, the cake looks like it could be breakfast!

    Reply
  9. Cate says

    September 9, 2005 at 12:47 am

    Thanks for the tip, Anna! You might want to check out the cookies I posted tonight – delicious!

    S’kat – dinner was great. The oatmeal cake might be a little too sweet for breakfast, but why the heck not?

    Reply

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I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨

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