#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨
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Break Up Food

December 16, 2006 · Narrative

The Sister-in-Law and her boyfriend just broke up, and she’s coming over for dinner tomorrow night. So, the question of the day is, what is YOUR favorite “break up food?” I vividly remember working my way through too much Haagen Dazs after a break up in my early 20s, spending time hanging out in my bedroom, refusing to change from my sweats, for the better part of three days. And I was the one that broke up with him! Then all the sudden, without giving it hard, focused thought, you turn the corner and that little voice inside you says, “enough already,” and all is instantly right with the world.

So what does it for you? Is it pure junk food? Do you go the comfort food route with the cheesiest mac and cheese you can conjure up? Or do you do a total 360 and go in the complete opposite direction … hitting the gym, eating cleanly and vowing to make him sorry the relationship ended the next time he sees you? What food gets you over a break-up?

I know what I’m making for dinner tomorrow, and there will be chocolate. ‘Nuff said. Until then…

A year ago today… mixed bag

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  1. Dani says

    December 16, 2006 at 3:59 am

    Break up Food? Whenever a guy broke up with me, I could not eat for days and went to the gym for 3 hours or longer every day.

    But now, when I have a huge fight or whatever with The Husband, I go to the freezer and grab some Ice Cream. And those are the times when I don’t care if it is full fat or not ;) But thank god I haven’t had to do that in a long time….

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  2. t says

    December 16, 2006 at 7:55 pm

    i generally go to the gym *and* have some ice cream. but really it’s all about texture. anything that *feels* like mashed potatos or pudding is *so* in. my sister, though, needs things that crunch ’cause she gets mad.

    Reply
  3. Heather says

    December 16, 2006 at 9:02 pm

    I think pizza or mashed potatoes. They fix everything.
    Chocoalte also works, but I have to have the salty with the sweet.

    Reply
  4. Kirsten says

    December 16, 2006 at 9:34 pm

    Break up food, huh? I didn’t date enough for that. But stress food I can do, having survived law school and two infants (not, thank heavens, at the same time). General Tao’s chicken and Java Chip ice cream.

    Reply
  5. Walter Jeffries says

    December 16, 2006 at 10:59 pm

    Eek! A favorite break up food! That would mean one would have to done it often enough to have developed a preference… Ack!!! :}

    See http://SugarMtnFarm.com/blog/ for my weekend dog blogging entry of Saturn.

    Cheers,

    -WalterJ

    Reply
  6. Cate says

    December 17, 2006 at 4:14 am

    Dani – ahhh, I forgot about the “I can’t bear to look at food” category. ;)

    t and Heather – mashed potatoes/comfort food is perfect!

    Kirsten – stress food, I hear ya. I love the Java Chip. Starbucks used to make one with a white chocolate ripple through coffee ice cream that was out of this world. Haven’t seen it in a few years though.

    Walter – LOL. Nah, you just know what’ll make you feel better. ;)

    Reply
  7. Vanessa (of vanesscipes) says

    December 17, 2006 at 11:24 pm

    anything that someone else makes you and delivers with kleenex, books, and movies.
    Nice of you to help out!

    Reply
  8. Anonymous says

    December 19, 2006 at 7:32 pm

    Mac and Cheese and Cheetos (eaten separately).

    Reply
  9. Scott at Real Epicurean says

    December 19, 2006 at 8:52 pm

    Definately Ben & Jerry’s Ice Cream. I think I’m the first guy to reply to this post – so I should act stereotypically and say “beer and crisps”?

    Reply
  10. Snarkmeister says

    December 20, 2006 at 1:07 am

    Hmmm…I vividly remember a horrible fight with Babydaddy (long before Rugrat came into the picture) after which I downed the better part of a bottle of rum. Straight. From. The. Bottle. It was not pleasant. I don’t think I’ve had any rum since…and that was about ten years ago.

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Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨

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