#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨
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December 23, 2008 · Narrative

With Christmas only a few days away, I’ve managed to cross off a lot from my list, but there is still so much to do.  As our Christmas cards sit on my desk, still needing attention, and a few gifts remain to be purchased, and a Christmas Eve menu needs to be decided, my mantra over the past few days has been “it’s ok.”  If people don’t get our Christmas cards before Christmas (because I don’t think they will this year), it’s ok.  So they enjoy them a few days after, no matter.  If the house is not completely decorated, it’s ok.  Because Nicholas and the girls have their own trees up in their bedrooms and our main one is done.  The rest, although I would have liked to finish … well, it’s ok that I didn’t.  Because what remains important now, in the days leading up to Christmas, are the little things.  How Nicholas sat in utter awe when Santa called him over the weekend, knowing that it was the real Santa.  How we managed to bake a bajillion cookies and bars and distribute them to his teachers today, creating memories and special moments with each ingredient we blended together.  How Nicholas brought me a pile of clothes over the weekend and asked me to please send them to St. Jude’s, for the children that may have less than him.   How Christmas is something completely different when you have the opportunity to see it through a child’s eyes.  So I’m going to relax … and breathe … and whatever doesn’t get done?  It’s ok.  And besides … who needs completed to-do lists when you have this?

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  1. The Sister In-Law says

    December 23, 2008 at 7:30 am

    Hooray Maddie!!! BTW don’t feel bad, I didn’t get around to putting my tree up and I still need to wrap all the gifls (shopping is done) and now I’m sick to boot. Half my staff will get their presents after Christmas.

    SIL

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  2. ttfn300 says

    December 23, 2008 at 8:52 am

    aww, love it!!! it’s nice to remember the little things during such a hectic time :)

    ttfn300s last blog post..Rosemary Lovin

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  3. Jamie says

    December 23, 2008 at 10:53 am

    Sounds like my kind of thinking. Everything always seems to work out okay.

    Thank you for the St. Jude’s gifts. Last year for Christmas my 15 year old niece was a patient there with brain cancer, so that’s where we spent our Christmas. After 9 months, she is home and in remission and on her way from Baltimore to Cleveland today as we speak for our annual Family Christmas Party! It is really something for us to celebrate and be thankful for. Being there was the most humbling experience of my life that I will never forget. Thank God for St. Jude’s. Have a great holiday season!

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  4. Patsy says

    December 23, 2008 at 1:55 pm

    Look at her go! What a wonderful reminder at this time of year to stop and enjoy just being with family!

    Happy Holidays to you and your family!

    Patsys last blog post..Happy Hanukkah and a Fun Recipe

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  5. claire says

    December 23, 2008 at 4:11 pm

    Look at her just a walking! Y’all are going to have so much fun this year. Sounds like Nicholas is really getting into it.

    claires last blog post..Cranberry Cream Cheese Oatmeal Cookies

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  6. Karen K says

    December 24, 2008 at 1:44 pm

    It’s better to reflect on the important things than to perform the annual beatings! I don’t look at my list from the perspective of all that I have accomplished, I look at all the things I have not finished. There’s not really that much left . . . and how important are they really? Those moments seeing the holiday season from a child’s perspective are little gifts from God! Breathe deep and enjoy, eh?

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I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨

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