#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨
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Not So Wordless Wednesday

September 23, 2009 · Narrative

There are parts of Kate Gosselin’s life that I can relate to.  Unfortunately, it’s not the $75k-per-episode part of her life.  A few weeks back, she was talking about how things were different being a single mom, and she said that she was going to have to learn how to do some things herself now that Jon was gone.  She didn’t want her lack of knowledge in a particular area to hold her back.  Her example at the time was going camping and grilling.  Two things that Jon usually handled.  I can totally relate.

Six weeks ago, I bought this stroller for Madeline.  It has sat in the box on my porch, unopened, since then for two reasons.

The first reason.  Every stroller we have ever had for either of the kids, The Husband put together.  I never had to do a thing.  This one sat in the box taunting me.  I knew I could totally put it together.  It was just mind over matter.

The second reason?  This picture tells it all.

Stroller Help

Oh. You don’t see it? Maybe this one will help.

Stroller Help Part 2

And if you still can’t see it. This one is bound to do it.

Stroller Help Part 3

My little helper.

Say Cheese

As soon as she saw what I was up to, and that it was something for her, it was all she could do to stay off it.  I knew once I opened the box and she spied what I was up to, it would take me twice as long to put the stroller together.

But the stroller now?  Completely put together, fully functioning, by me.  I’m quite proud of myself actually.  The next step is to conquer the grill.  After a mini lesson last weekend, I am confident I’m up for the challenge.

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  1. Starnesfam says

    September 23, 2009 at 11:44 pm

    I had a healthy dose of this when we relocated from Denver to Kansas City. 7 months of selling a house, raising 3 kids and keeping day-to-day life going with school, church, friends, family, LIFE, etc. My biggest challenge? Putting the super fancy double stroller together I bought. I nearly have panic attacks over this stuff. Proud of you!

    Reply
  2. Joanne says

    September 24, 2009 at 6:12 am

    One step at a time. Go you, Cate!

    Reply
  3. Kris #40 says

    September 24, 2009 at 7:59 am

    You go girl! Love Miss Madeline peeking out!

    I am the put together girl in our house. My husband has no patience to read directions that come with things.

    Reply
  4. Patsy says

    September 24, 2009 at 9:45 am

    Good for you! There are some things that I try to do just so I can say I did it, even with my husband around. Strollers are a major pain to put together, so I’m quite impressed by you (and with a helper to boot!).

    Reply
  5. Sarah Caron says

    September 24, 2009 at 10:00 am

    So cute! You can do anything you set your mind to!

    Reply
  6. Ramona says

    September 24, 2009 at 12:24 pm

    I put things together a lot better than my ex-husband. Good job.

    Ramona

    Reply
  7. chris says

    September 24, 2009 at 1:52 pm

    VERY proud of you.

    Reply
  8. Karen says

    September 24, 2009 at 4:56 pm

    You go girl!!!! Our limitations are mostly in the mind.

    Reply
  9. Josie says

    September 24, 2009 at 10:53 pm

    Way to go :) I learned to grill after my brother made fun of me for stinking up hamburgers so bad they were inedible. I decided I was going to prove him wrong – and I have!

    Reply
  10. Cate says

    September 25, 2009 at 9:42 am

    Josie – all you need is something you can’t do something, right? :)

    Karen – you are very right, totally mind over matter.

    Chris – mwah! Baking this weekend, care package going out Monday. :)

    Ramona – I totally believe it. Thanks!

    Sarah – :)

    Patsy – you’d think they could just fold them down and ship them assembled, right? Or at least offer a fully-assembled option! ;)

    Kris – good, then I know who to hunt down next time! :)

    Joanne – definitely … one step at a time.

    Starnesfam – I totally hear you. There’s always something going on, something to challenge me, but at the end of the day, it’s all good. Really good.

    Reply
  11. pamela says

    September 26, 2009 at 10:17 am

    Cate, you can do anything! Nice job on the stroller, especially with your helper. I feel like I can’t even fold laundry with my helpers some days! I love that picture of Madeline pressed into the mesh of the stroller hood. Too cute.

    Reply
  12. maris says

    September 28, 2009 at 10:25 pm

    Way to go! I bet you put it together better than The Husband. I remember one time my dad assembled a foosball table for my brother and a few days later we looked under it and he had scotch-taped one of the pieces on! Needless to say, it didn’t hold up.

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I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨

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