#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨
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Dining by Candlelight

November 5, 2009 · Narrative

Mantle

Just as I was about to start making dinner tonight, the dark sky opened up and a slow and steady rain began outside.  I started to hear the raindrops hit the air conditioner in the window and all the sudden, a streak of lightning flashed outside.  “Good thing we’re in for the night,” I thought to myself.  And since I couldn’t decide if Nick had one last soccer practice tonight or not, the now-wet fields certainly sealed the deal.

Minutes later, the house went completely black.  You know the kind.  Utterly pitch black.  I waited for a few seconds to see who was going to start screaming or crying first.  Silence.  And then, “Mommy?” came quietly and with great hesitation.  As in … perhaps when the lights went out, Mommy suddenly disappeared too.  Like really, I had been standing just a few feet away from them, where would I go?

I started making my way towards the kitchen to hunt for some matches and candles, and just as I reached the threshhold, the whirr of the lights coming back on and all electricity springing back into action came.

I started lighting the candles anyway.  Our babysitter is a candle fanatic and always has them lit around the house, far from Madeline‘s reach, of course, nicely punctuating the space with bits of flickering light.

“Ohhh, it looks so pretty in the dark with the candles,” Nick said.  “Too bad the lights came back on.”

“Well, there’s no reason we can’t have the lights off anyway,” I told him.  I grabbed a few more candles from the closet (gotta love the Yankee Candle outlet) and started lighting them for the dining room table.  “Why don’t we eat by candlelight tonight?”

“That sounds like fun!”

Dining by Candlelight

He had already set the table for me (one of his regular chores), and minutes later (love leftover night for an easy dinner!), we were dining by candlelight.

“This is fun, Mommy!”

“It is, isn’t it?”

Something different.  Something fun.  Something spur-of-the-moment.

And the best way to avoid seeing the mess that Madeline was making with her bowl of blueberries.

Blueberry Madness

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  1. Patsy Kreitman says

    November 5, 2009 at 9:55 pm

    Wow, I didn’t even realize the rain had come tonight! Goes to show I didn’t even look out the window as I was getting my boys fed. What a fun idea to have dinner by candlelight… thinking I may have to try that for fun sometime soon!

    Reply
  2. Starnesfam says

    November 5, 2009 at 10:01 pm

    You are such a fun mom. These are the things kids remember…..love that.

    Reply
  3. Merry says

    November 5, 2009 at 11:25 pm

    Great idea! Definitely these are the little things that kids remember!

    Reply
  4. Joanne says

    November 6, 2009 at 7:15 am

    It didn’t rain here at all in NY, at least to my knowledge. How strange! This is a very cute idea either way. Very spur of the moment and fun.

    Reply
  5. pam says

    November 6, 2009 at 10:36 am

    When my girls were little we used to eat by candlelight every Friday night.

    Reply
  6. Kris #40 says

    November 6, 2009 at 11:25 am

    Looks so pretty! I was getting ready to dig out all my candles when the lights came back on. Whew!

    Reply
  7. Ramona says

    November 6, 2009 at 11:58 am

    How neat. LOL… Madie is a mess.

    Reply
  8. lisaiscooking says

    November 6, 2009 at 12:03 pm

    This sounds like fun! There is something special about candlelight.

    Reply
  9. chris says

    November 6, 2009 at 12:40 pm

    WOW, look at all that blue all over her. was it easy to get off??? love how she always wears a lot of her meals. VERY CUTE

    Reply
  10. Laura says

    November 6, 2009 at 1:38 pm

    whAT A SWEET DINNER

    Reply
  11. Natasha - 5 Star Foodie says

    November 6, 2009 at 2:52 pm

    Very fun and special for the kids!

    Reply
  12. Barbara says

    November 7, 2009 at 4:18 pm

    What an unexpected and lovely evening! Those are the best.

    Reply
  13. Sarah Caron says

    November 8, 2009 at 10:47 pm

    That looks like sooo much fun. What an awesome mom you are!

    Reply

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I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨

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