#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨
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April 25, 2010 · Narrative

This Little Boy


Normally, you’d come here to read a Sunday night post filled with pictures of our weekend.  Not tonight.  I can’t.  This is far too important.  Because instead, I have to tell you about this boy.  My little boy.

This boy.  This boy was upset when I told him that I signed him up for baseball this season.  There might have been a tear or twenty shed.  I can’t lie.  Although he has played soccer for four years, he has never played baseball.  I wanted him to just give it a try.  He ran through his list of fears for me.  What if he ran the wrong way?  What if he didn’t hit the ball?  Or catch it?  Or what if the other players yelled at him?  I told him to just try it.  Just one time.  And if he honestly didn’t like it, he didn’t have to continue.  I’m fair like that.  I also promised to help him the weeks before the season started.  We practiced throwing.  Catching.  Various scenarios of what to do when.  My years of playing town softball paid off.  I wanted him to feel as comfortable as possible.

Then this happened.  And he was bitten by the baseball bug.  Hard.

But this boy.  This weekend, this boy played the first baseball game of the season.  Not only the first game of the season, but HIS first game EVER.

This boy hit a home run.  I can feel the tears welling up as I’m typing.  I am so unbelievably proud of him.  A home freakin’ run.  And the other two times he got up to bat?  Singles.  His team won their first game by one point.  I can’t even put into words how proud I am of him.  That he stepped out of his comfort zone.  That he trusted me.  That he saw what was possible when he took a leap of faith.  It’s safe to say that he’s loving the sport now.  His weeknight practices of both soccer and baseball are on the same night.  At the exact same time.  But of course.  And he loves them both so much that he wouldn’t hear of dropping one.  This boy.  Is growing up.  For realz.

As if that wasn’t enough for one weekend.  Or one lifetime.  Friday was report card day.  Third semester is over.  (How is that even possible?!)  This boy has struggled a bit with Science this year.  He brought up his C to a B.  And his Language Arts grade from a B to an A.

He has every reason to be bursting with pride for himself.  For seeing his hard work pay off.  Of course if he came home with all C’s, but did his very best, I would be just as proud.  But he really applied himself.  And it paid off.

Huge lessons here.  He has shown himself what happens when he slows down a bit in school and really takes his time.  With baseball, he’s seen what can happen when he steps out of his comfort zone a bit to see what is out there.  Just beyond.

Joy


This boy.  Just amazing.

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Comments

  1. mandy says

    April 25, 2010 at 10:45 pm

    Wooohoo! That is beyond awesome. I am so glad that he went for it and baseball has worked out so well for him so far.

    Reply
  2. stephanie says

    April 26, 2010 at 1:13 am

    they give letter grade in lower elementary grades! way harsh tai!

    Reply
  3. Jacqueline says

    April 26, 2010 at 2:17 am

    You must be bursting with pride. You have really cheered me up this Monday morning.

    Reply
  4. Joanne says

    April 26, 2010 at 6:12 am

    He really is amazing Cate! This post just about made my morning. I’m so glad he hit that home run…he deserves the feelings of pride and joy that come along with it.

    Reply
  5. Sarah Caron says

    April 26, 2010 at 7:29 am

    Well, now you have me teary-eyed too. Go Nick! Those are some wonderful, fantastic accomplishments.

    Reply
  6. Kris #40 says

    April 26, 2010 at 8:51 am

    Way to go Nick!

    Reply
  7. Cathy says

    April 26, 2010 at 9:12 am

    Yay for Nick!! What great accomplishments this weekend for him!

    Reply
  8. Patsy says

    April 26, 2010 at 9:59 am

    Wow! What a weekend of accomplishments! I imagine he must be just smiling ear to ear!

    Reply
  9. Tyanne says

    April 26, 2010 at 10:23 am

    That’s awesome!!! Way to go Nick!!!

    Reply
  10. Sister In-Law says

    April 26, 2010 at 10:57 am

    Kudos to Nick. We are all so proud!!

    SIL

    Reply
  11. thecoffeesnob says

    April 26, 2010 at 11:02 am

    He sounds like such an amazing kid! Kudos to you too for gently encouraging him to try out new things and giving him the wings to fly :)

    Reply
  12. claire says

    April 26, 2010 at 11:13 am

    I love this post!!!! I can tell how proud you are of Nick, not just because of what he’s accomplished but what he’s learned. How neat! What a great “boy!” :-)

    Reply
  13. claire says

    April 26, 2010 at 11:14 am

    P.S. – I remember when I hit my first homerun…I ran all the way around the bases and BACK to first base. My dad was coaching the first base and I ran straight to him. It was SO exciting! What a fun thing to share with your parents…I know he was glad that you were there.

    Reply
  14. Casey says

    April 26, 2010 at 11:27 am

    Amazing sounds about right!!!!!!! Great story. Sometimes, our kids just need a little push. :)

    Reply
  15. Maris (In Good Taste) says

    April 26, 2010 at 3:27 pm

    Go Nick!! Congratulations Cate, and just to think this is only the beginning!!

    Reply
  16. Jen says

    April 26, 2010 at 8:36 pm

    Congratulations to Nick! I am touched – what a great post!

    Reply
  17. pamela says

    April 26, 2010 at 9:11 pm

    Yeah!! Great job, Nick! A home run??!?! That’s awesome! And what great news with the report card, too. There’s a lot for you all to celebrate, huh? :o)

    Reply
  18. Ramona says

    April 27, 2010 at 2:31 pm

    Fantastic Nick. You’re doing a great job there!!!!

    Reply

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I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨

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