#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨
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Finding Your Outlet

August 12, 2010 · Narrative

Sugar Coma

This week has been one of those weeks.  You know the kind.  Full of unsuspected challenges.  Disappointment.  The kind where you count the hours until the end of the week.  But most importantly, the kind where having an outlet is a most wonderfyl thing.  My outlet these days?  The gym. It is, and has been for the past eight months, my salvation.  I never thought a statement like that would come out of my mouth (or my keyboard, as the case may be), but it’s true.  It is a place where, for an hour or two, I can leave everything behind.  I can clear my head.  Refocus.  And let go.  I focus on giving 110% in an exercise class.  Sculpting a muscle.  Carving out a new curve.  The shuffle on my iPod.  Nothing else matters for that time.  Sacred.

Challenging week or not, I think we can all use an outlet or two.  Some activity or place where we can just escape from it all, be it for five minutes or five hours.   A place where nothing else matters and everything is right.  It could be gardening and digging out flower beds.  Getting behind a blank canvas or a set of drums.  Pounding the pavement for an intense jog.  Sometimes it’s baking.  We all need a place or a thing to just shut it all out.  A place to make it better.  What’s yours?

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August 12, 2010, Photo #146

Partners in Crime

Awhile back, I shared one of the things that I do to keep motivated while losing weight.  For every five pounds I lose, I put a bag of sugar on the kitchen counter.  A great visual reminder that really puts into perspective just how much five pounds is.  Especially when it’s on your body and it needn’t be.  While I loved the idea, and stuck with it for several months, there were now eight (EIGHT!!) bags of sugar on my counter.  I need a new idea.  But in the meantime, I wanted to take a picture to commemorate my accomplishment.  My idea was to take a picture of Nick holding all the bags of sugar.  Only problem?  After about fifteen minutes and several various attempts, he couldn’t hold it all.  So I got the best shot I could, and now even he also appreciates how much forty pounds really is.

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  1. Joanne says

    August 13, 2010 at 6:20 am

    First of all, Cate, I am so proud of you. Forty pounds is no easy feat. I know. I’ve been there. I need to be somewhere near there again and just can’t get motivated. Maybe I need to buy some bags of flour/sugar and start there.

    My outlet used to be running but now that I’m injured, it’s baking and blogging. Now if only I could run while kneading bread…

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  2. Debbie says

    August 13, 2010 at 7:11 am

    Congrats on losing all the weight. That is fantastic! My outlets are reading, baking and walking my dogs…..

    Reply
  3. Patsy says

    August 13, 2010 at 8:41 am

    What an awesome accomplishment to lose 40 lbs and to have found a perfect outlet for those “harder” weeks!!!

    I started running in June and while it was hard at first, I actually look forward to running now! I’m going to do my first 5k in a couple of months, which is what is keeping me motivated.

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  4. debbie koenig says

    August 13, 2010 at 10:39 am

    Cate, that’s terrific! I lost 100 lbs some years ago & it was just about the hardest thing I ever did. (Now I’m losing weight again, y’know, the baby weight I gained thanks to my son. Who’s now 4. 23 down, maybe 5 to go!)

    Reply
  5. Ramona says

    August 13, 2010 at 11:25 am

    WOW, 40 lbs. is great! Congrats to you.

    Reply
  6. Meg says

    August 13, 2010 at 12:43 pm

    Congratulations, Cate! That’s fantastic, and what a great way to motivate you. I love it.

    Reply
  7. Andrea says

    August 14, 2010 at 10:59 pm

    Congrats, Cate! That’s absolutely amazing. I just love your sugar bags as motivation – so clever and original.

    Reply
  8. mandy says

    August 15, 2010 at 11:42 am

    Great job!! 40 lbs is amazing!

    Reply
  9. Farmgirl Susan says

    August 15, 2010 at 3:08 pm

    Congratulations, Cate!!! That is HUGE accomplishment – as evidenced by all those heavy bags of sugar! I loved your visual motivational trick. :)

    Reply
  10. Cate says

    August 15, 2010 at 4:40 pm

    Thanks all – I’m very proud of myself!!!

    Reply
  11. Pamela says

    August 21, 2010 at 9:06 pm

    Awesome!!! Congrats!

    Reply

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I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨

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