#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨
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2010 Goal: Met

January 6, 2011 · Narrative

My creationI had many goals for 2010.

Small goals.

Big goals.

Some seemingly insurmountable goals.

I feel like I met most of them.

But, most importantly, I met the biggest one of all.

To get back to my wedding weight.

When I got married, I was physically in a good place.

In the zone.

Committed to working out, eating clean and taking care of me.

Later that year, I let go of the wheel.

Big time.

Kids.  Houses.  Distractions.  EXCUSES.

2010 was the start of a lot of things.

And not because I got divorced.

In spite of that actually.

By the end of the year, my goal was met.

I was back to my wedding weight.

In fact, 10 pounds lighter.

A friend mentioned that the wedding picture above on the left isn’t the best one because you can’t see most of me.  But that wasn’t the point.  It was just to depict a great day in my life, and a goal I kept in my crosshairs all through 2010.  And it happens to be one of my favorite pictures from that day.

The picture on the right?  It was taken a few weeks ago.  Those don’t happen to be the largest jeans I owned.  That would have been two sizes bigger.  Unfortunately I got rid of all those clothes.  Wished I had thought to save a pair.

I am inexplicably proud of myself for having met that goal head on.

Through setting up a new house.  Again.

A divorce.

Nick changing schools.

Being downsized at work.

And countless other challenges that came my way.

I kept my head down and plowed through.

Listen to me closely.  If I can do it, so can you.

I promise you that, if nothing else.

Make no excuses for yourself.

Accept nothing but the best for yourself.

Be good to yourself.

Inside and out.

This year, one of my goals is to take off the last bit of weight and be done with it once and for all.  The closer I get, the more exciting it gets.

2010 was my year.

So is 2011.

Project 365
January 6, 2011, Photo #6

Cobblestone WalkwayI’m a sucker for a cobblestone anything.  Saw this in downtown Morristown yesterday.  Went around the block to get a picture.  Love it.

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Comments

  1. Sarah Caron says

    January 6, 2011 at 9:58 pm

    Congratulations! 2010 really was your year — in spite of all the challenges. Best wishes for an even better and more powerful 2011.

    Reply
  2. Casey says

    January 6, 2011 at 10:28 pm

    Awesome, Cate! So awesome.

    Reply
  3. Joanne says

    January 7, 2011 at 7:19 am

    Woohoo! Congrats Cate. You continue to inspire me. Each and every day.

    Reply
  4. Kris #40 says

    January 7, 2011 at 9:45 am

    You go girl! You look amazing!

    Reply
  5. claire says

    January 7, 2011 at 9:49 am

    Wow…I’m impressed! And you did it with simple changes…though not completely easy, simple. keep it up!

    Reply
  6. Patsy says

    January 7, 2011 at 10:21 am

    That is truly impressive! You had an amazing year, and are off to a fabulous start for 2011! Good for you!

    Reply
  7. Victoria says

    January 7, 2011 at 10:58 am

    Cate – I have read/lurked your blogs for years. You are truly an inspiration. Thanks for sharing.

    Reply
  8. Ramona says

    January 7, 2011 at 11:48 am

    That’s a lot of weight gone! Good for you.

    Reply
  9. Sherry Lee says

    January 7, 2011 at 12:18 pm

    You look amazing! Congrads!

    Reply
  10. The Sister In-Law says

    January 7, 2011 at 1:58 pm

    You look great Cate!!

    SIL

    Reply
  11. Andreaa says

    January 7, 2011 at 8:58 pm

    Fantastic! Here’s to your continued health and happiness.

    Reply
  12. Lori @ RecipeGirl says

    January 8, 2011 at 12:49 pm

    You are absolutely wonderful. What a lot of stressers to get in the way, and you’ve done it. Yay! Here’s to continued success!

    Reply
  13. leslie says

    January 8, 2011 at 10:14 pm

    WHAT AN AWESOME year for you! You look wonderful!

    Reply
  14. Jen says

    January 9, 2011 at 2:41 pm

    Congratulations on a fabulous 2010! May 2011 be even better!

    Reply
  15. Karen says

    January 9, 2011 at 10:01 pm

    Cate – congratulations. The photo with the jeans really puts your accomplishment in perspective. I’ve read your blog for years – before your had your daughter, so its been awhile. I had never seen a picture of you before last spring…maybe with your weight loss you’re more comfortable showing yourself off!! You look fabulous!

    Reply
  16. Allison says

    January 10, 2011 at 2:02 am

    You look amazing and should be so proud of all you accomplished in 2010. May 2011 bring you more success and much happiness. I am so excited to follow your journey.

    Reply
  17. MariaV says

    January 10, 2011 at 6:01 am

    You’re inspiring, Cate. Congratulations!

    Reply
  18. Magda says

    January 14, 2011 at 12:12 pm

    Hey! Send me that picture! I have never seen it before and we look so young and happy ;-) Miss you! Are we still on for facials in Nebraska this year??

    Reply

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I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
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I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨

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