#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨
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New Favorite Shoes and New Launch

October 20, 2011 · Narrative

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The first time I saw these shoes, I oohed and ahhed, and walked away.  After all, they were $56.00.  Totally not in the single mom budget.  And wouldn’t get enough wear to rationalize the purchase.

Even if I specialize in rationalizing.

Then when Beth and I went down the shore in August, I spied them again.  She walked away from me.  They were $35.00 then.  And much harder for me to walk away from.  She thought they were sparkly and I was crazy.

But I walked away too.

A few weeks ago, Mystic and I were down the shore.  And I spied the shoes again.

He was off buying something super important socks, and came to find me.  He looked at the shoes on my feet.

“For you?” he asked.

Yes, do you like them?

“They’re colorful,” he said.  He is many things, and apparently diplomatic is one of them.

They were $21.00.

$21.00!!  I couldn’t do it.  I couldn’t walk away.

So now they’re in the bottom of my closet, amongst my assortment of sneakers, wedges, and flats.

I realize that given I got a nice, fat sprained ankle walking down my own front steps in sneakers (sneakers!) back in May, they may not be the best choice for me.  But that’s ok.

We’ll have occasions to wear them.  And I will.  And we’ll make perfect occasions just to wear them.

As soon as Madeline spied the shoe box, she opened it right up and put them on her feet.  The girl walks in heels like no other.

And since I keep finding these in her room, we’ll get lots of use out of them.

Together.

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I have been taking pictures for years. I am “the one” that always has my camera on hand, not wanting to miss a moment. And to document everything. But I’ve also morphed into being the unofficial official photographer at parties, holidays, and social functions. For the past year, I have been saying that I would love to become a professional photographer.

And I finally decided to put my lens where my mouth was.

It’s official. I have launched Olivia Photography Associates. I am beyond stoked. I am a huge believer in “do what you love and the money will follow.” It doesn’t always work. But when it does? It’s just magical. And the business name? Madeline’s middle name is Olivia. With Sweetnicks being named with Nicholas in mind, it seems only fair that the newest incarnation pay homage to her. After all, they are my favorite subjects.

PS And in case YOU need your very own pair of sparkly, glittery shoes, get thee to Kohl’s.  There’s a pair of Candie’s for you!

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  1. annie says

    October 20, 2011 at 8:32 pm

    Cate-
    I have been reading your blog for several years now. I love it. It is the perfect mix of food, fun, family and a little bit of unexpected. Madeline is about the age of my oldest son. I wish you the best in your photography business. I wish you were closer to Albany, NY as I would schedule a session in a heartbeat!

    Reply
  2. The neighbor wife says

    October 20, 2011 at 8:35 pm

    I could have made you those shoes for a lot less! Lol

    Reply
  3. beth says

    October 20, 2011 at 9:02 pm

    don’t forget i have the slingback version for you here (the $18 pair!). i only want a promise you won’t blame me when/if/when you break an ankle…

    Reply
  4. Joanne says

    October 21, 2011 at 6:24 am

    I think they’re gorgeous. If you ever want to come clubbing with me just so you have an excuse to wear them…you let me know! But if I were you I’d also just wear them to the grocery store. C’est la vie!

    I am SO excited for you about Olivia Photography! Also…I love that the initials spell OPA…quite fitting given just how excited I am!

    Reply
  5. Claire says

    October 21, 2011 at 1:58 pm

    You know…I would never just pick those shoes up on my own, but they would TOTALLY rock out a holiday party! LOVE it!

    Reply
  6. Jane says

    October 21, 2011 at 2:46 pm

    kohls has a pair of girls flats for $18.00- future gift for your daughter?
    LOVE THEM
    and good luck with your new business venture!

    Reply
  7. Meg says

    October 24, 2011 at 3:32 pm

    Congrats on launching your photography business! I’m sure you’ll do quite well. Your photos are always great!

    Reply
  8. christy says

    October 26, 2011 at 4:22 pm

    I didnt see those shoes on the khols website. :*(

    Reply

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I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
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I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨

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