#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨
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‘Twas the Night Before the Night Before Christmas 2011

December 24, 2011 · Narrative

Madeline and Santa 2011
Have you ever seen a cuter reindeer? I haven’t. Madeline had her Christmas concert today, and I knew Santa was coming for a visit. As he reached into his big sack and pulled out a present with her name on it, I held my breath. We visited our favorite town Santa a few weeks ago, and she wanted no part of it. No picture on his lap, smiling, crying or otherwise.

Today, she went right up to him, let him put her on his lap and told him what she wanted.  I have no idea where the change of heart came from.  It must be the dress.  (The dress is circa J. Crew’s Crew Cuts 2010.  She wore it for Easter, and I adore it, so was super excited that I got to eek one last wearing out of it before it goes to the consignment shop)

And this next bit … this is exactly why, although I love the trappings of the city life, I will forever want to live in a small town. Where although people like to gossip, sometimes people knowing things is a good thing. I swear I teared up. Someone there knew that I didn’t have a picture of the two kids with Santa yet this year.

And knew that I wanted one.

If you know me, whether in real life or through visiting here, you know I kind of like to document things. Photographically. And Santa? The holidays? My kids? Huge. So Nick had a half day today. It was a nothing day. They have done no work at all all week. They had their holiday party yesterday. He knew Madeline’s concert was today and asked if he could go. I said yes.

When someone at Madeline’s school saw Madeline on Santa’s lap, willingly, happily, and noticed that Nick was with me, there was a quick scrambling and beckoning to get Nick up there too.

Because they knew I didn’t have the picture I wanted.

And they wanted to help me get that.

My heart melts for moments like these.

And so I got it.

Nick and Madeline Sanra 2011

It’s a simple thing really. Something small. But when the kids are grown-up with families of their own, I want them to look back at the pictures with their own children, and be able to say, “This. This is my life. This is when I was your age.  My childhood.”

December 23, 2011 – Bonus Photos
Me and Madeline Xmas 2011

Digging In

Silly
Such.her.personality.

Camuso Light Display
Many moons ago, when I was in high school, there was a home in Livingston that had a ridiculous light display. Ridiculous as in good. The family matriarch died. The house sold. The display gone. But this year? It came back and is now displayed by the town. Which is such an awesome thing in and of itself. And even more awesome that I got to show my kids a light display that I saw as a kid. (For those in the area, you can check out their facebook page right here for more details)

Fah-reezing
Madeline’s shot of me and Nick. Not too shabby.

Nativity

Alright, folks, I’m done for the night. I can’t promise I will be back tomorrow night. There have been rumblings of “I’m staying up until Santa comes,” and well, let’s just hope that doesn’t happen ’cause I’m not sure Mama can outlast the Santa watchers. If I don’t pop in here tomorrow, have a fantabulous holiday, and as Madeline loudly and frequently proclaimed pretty much to anybody within ear shot today, “Merry Christmas to all, and to all a good night!”

xoxo

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Comments

  1. Cathy says

    December 24, 2011 at 12:31 am

    where was the house in livingston, near the mall? I remember going over there and getting out of the car to see all the lights!

    Reply
    • Cate O'Malley says

      December 25, 2011 at 6:08 pm

      Yup, it was down the street from the mall. Good times!

      Reply
  2. Mandi says

    December 24, 2011 at 4:08 am

    And that photo of your kids with Santa? That someone knew you wanted? That’s the exact same reason that I choose to live where I do too – yes to the gossip but also to the neighbourly spirit where people know each other and watch out for each other and show they care with little things like taking a photo of your kids with Santa

    Reply
    • Cate O'Malley says

      December 25, 2011 at 6:08 pm

      Amen!

      Reply
  3. Joanne says

    December 24, 2011 at 7:25 am

    Hmmm I think you might need to give those kids some benadryl to ensure that they fall asleep. It’s totally safe, I swear. My mom used to do it all the time. :)

    I’m so glad you got your picture! It really is adorable. If I don’t hear from you, Merry Christmas love! Give the kids about twenty hugs and kisses for me!

    Reply
  4. Susan in England says

    December 24, 2011 at 8:02 am

    Merry Christmas to all of you!

    Reply
  5. Joanie from CLBB says

    December 24, 2011 at 10:27 am

    What a wonderful gift to fans & followers of Sweetnicks, too, that photo of those 2 beautiful, healthy kids!! Keep ’em moving, Cate, that’ll wear the lil darlings out and get them in the sack to wait for Santa. Healthy holiday wishes to your family from us here in NC–or, as I like to put it–HAPPY HEEL-O-DAYS!

    Reply
    • Cate O'Malley says

      December 25, 2011 at 6:09 pm

      Aw shucks, ma’am, you’re very sweet. Hope the holidays were good to you!

      Reply
  6. Debbie says

    December 24, 2011 at 5:57 pm

    Hope you all have a very Merry Christmas! Beautiful pictures!

    Reply
  7. Kris #40 says

    December 25, 2011 at 12:08 am

    Great pictures!!

    Loved that house in Livingston. The Star-Ledger just had an article on how the collection was donated to the town and restored by volunteers.

    Have a Merry Christmas!

    Reply
  8. Claire says

    December 25, 2011 at 5:13 pm

    Wow…still in school?! Schools around here were out all week. Love lights but didn’t find any this year. Love that picture of Madeline…too cute! Hope you have a very Merry Christmas!

    Reply

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I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
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I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨

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