Happy #NationalPuppyDay to these two. I used to ca Happy #NationalPuppyDay to these two. I used to call Clifford an asshat, because he basically was. But there’s a new asshat in town… 🙄 Clifford is now a freaking rockstar. His tumor and age have slowed him down a LOT and he virtually never misbehaves, and we are seriously so proud of him. Lola, on the other hand, is still full blown PUPPY. Tonight I’m assembling a gate to replace the wooden one she ate through. 😂 Berners love wood and she is OBSESSED with being in the kitchen. So one new metal gate coming right up as soon as I can figure out how to put it together.
Last week when I met the owners of the new French Last week when I met the owners of the new French bakery in town, I told them how happy I was that they were opening … because now I had an endless source for gifts for my mom’s future birthdays and Christmases. She was born in Paris and we’ve grown up with a healthy appreciation for French things … starting with their pastries and baguettes, but so much more. My daughter took her first trip to Paris last year and thoroughly enjoyed the croissants there and she deemed the ones at @chocolatinenj just as perfect. No surprise there since the owner is a French pastry chef! If you’re local and haven’t been, do make a point to stop in and visit. They’re open Wednesday through Sunday and have a wide selection of sweet and savory items and a few French retail selections as well. We’ve tried the macarons, the Croque Monsieur, the croissants, the tomato tarts, the baguette … basically we’re working our way through their display case in due time. Don’t miss this one - enjoy!
People complain about how much time is spent on ph People complain about how much time is spent on phones sometimes, but if it wasn’t for phones. I wouldn’t have these awesome little snippets of them growing up. I only wish I had more. Appreciate and document the little mundane things, for they are the very fabric of your life.
happy Spring, friends! Y’all know how long I’v happy Spring, friends! Y’all know how long I’ve been waiting for the seasons to change and I’m so excited that Mother Nature was on board today! ☀️ There is nothing like the energy from the sun and it makes me happy. Hope you got some today!
Weekend photos in review, old school style. Contex Weekend photos in review, old school style. Context: 1) saying goodbye until Easter, 2) sending him back with good bagels, 3) sunlight charging station, 4) the sun was out all day yesterday and it was glorious, 5) hitting the farmers market for my favorite garlic butter, 6) make a wish, 7) sun patterns, and 8) my sous chef
I don’t eat French fries often, but when I do, I I don’t eat French fries often, but when I do, I’m going to make it count. Doo Wop Eats opened a few months ago in downtown Denville and their fries are LEGIT. They are hand cut and taste the way fries should … like potatoes! I add a sprinkle of salt and dunk them in a side of their special sauce and they are pure perfection. You can order a small bucket or a large one (better for sharing!), or as a side item with one of their other delicious menu items like their cheeseburgers, fried chicken sandwiches or cheesesteak. I do believe they’re the best fries in town. I said what I said. Doo Wop’s menu celebrates all your favorite Jersey shore boardwalk treats, including Fried Oreos, clam strips and milk shakes and has a fun vibe for kids and families. 😍
The Grinder Salad, a recipe I found on tiktok that The Grinder Salad, a recipe I found on tiktok that takes all of your favorite ingredients from a grinder (or sub) sandwich and makes it into a delicious chopped salad. It’s as easy as putting everything in a bowl and chopping it up. Perfect for busy days and lazy nights, light meals and warm weather choices. Ingredient list below. Enjoy!

One bag or arugula
One container of cherry tomatoes 
Quarter pound of hard salami
8 Oz of fresh mozzarella
One small red onion
1/3 cup banana peppers 
Handful of fresh basil
Half cup Italian salad dressing
3 T Kewpie mayo
2 T red wine vinegar 
Sea salt and black pepper

Chop it all up, add a half box of ditalini pasta, cooked. Mix to combine.

Recipe from GrilledCheeseSocial.
We had a fun little board party this week and the We had a fun little board party this week and the delicious whipped Brie I shared earlier was front and center. If you haven’t heard of board parties, it’s when every guest makes a different type of food board and brings it - so much fun noshing ensues! With toasted baguette slices, cornichons and local honey, this was mostly a French-inspired board. So simple to pull together and totally my kind of meal.
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Eat. Live. Be. and Learning How to Do It All Without Losing Your Mind

January 18, 2012 · Eat. Live. Be., Narrative

If you happened to visit Sweetnicks Wednesday night before 8 pm, you might have noticed that it was dark.  Online presences all over the world went dark today to protest the SOPA/PIPA bills that are before Congress.  If the bills should pass (vote is next week), what you see online on some of your favorite sites (Pinterest, Facebook, Twitter, Google, Wikipedia and millions of others) will be censored.  As someone who makes a wee bit of income with my own online presence, I made the decision to join the protest, make the site dark, sign a few petitions, and tweet about it.  Whether or not you have your own site, or just like to have freedom when spending time online, I urge you to research the SOPA/PIPA bills and sign as you see fit.

Onto our regularly scheduled program… When I think about trying to juggle everything, or how to best balance all my responsibilities, I try and revert back to the Aha! moment I had back in June with Wendy Clark.  And in a recent e-mail from Wendy a few weeks ago, she reminded me of the same message.  Balance is a false goal.  I can’t balance everything.  You can’t either.  None of us can.  What we CAN do, however, is give 100% of everything we have to whatever we’re doing at that particular moment.

When I’m at work, that’s what I’m focusing on.

When I’m helping Nick with homework, that is where I am, mind, body, and spirit.

Whether it’s menu planning, working out, or time with Mystic, I try to be completely present in that moment on that particular task.

Anything less, and I would go crazy.  But more importantly, I would always feel like I’m letting someone down.  Or myself.  Those pangs of guilt would creep in.

And the best way to rid yourself of all that?  Is to stop.  Focus on the here and now.  Whatever you’re doing at this particular moment.  And give it your all.

It’s an ongoing lesson I need to keep reminding myself of.  It’s something that doesn’t come naturally.  And I’m not sure that it ever will.  But I still think it’s where the answer lies.  I’m not perfect.  I slip sometimes.  My mind wanders.  Goes in a million different directions.  But I think the fact that I’m conscious of this, and work on focusing a bit more makes all the difference.

I think about it, the balancing act, a lot with dating, and Mystic and I talked about it this weekend.  The kids come first.  No doubt.  I don’t want any of them to ever feel like they’re getting short-changed.  And they don’t.  Or to not know how important their place is in our families.  The collective group of five are with us nearly all.the.time.  We do family dinners together.  Movie nights at home with darkened rooms and popped popcorn.  A spontaneous Sonic visit for slushes.  A manicure with just me, Madeline, and Mystic’s daughter.  A bowling date with just Mystic and four out of five of the kids (I thought he was very brave for that one since it was so early on when we first started dating!).  Get-togethers just because.  I want them all to feel part of the larger picture, so they are included.  Without fail.  On the rare occasions that Mystic and I are kid-free, we enjoy that too.  Fully and completely.

What I know to be true is this.  You get exactly what you give.  Whether it’s working out (this is, after all, Eat. Live. Be. day), sharing craft time with your kids, meeting a work deadline, or making time for your significant other (or the search to find one!)… you give 100%, you will get 100%.

It takes work.

It takes thought.  Constant thought.

It takes deliberate motions.  And plans.  And strategizing.

But one activity at a time.  100% to it at that time.

And you will be ok.

Swear.

I thought this quote from Michael Jordan was in keeping with my topic tonight. People, you get what you give. Give it your all, just one thing at a time.
Eat. Live. Be.

Be sure to check out the sites of Sarah, Patsy, and Joanne to see how they’re celebrating Eat. Live. Be. this week.

January 18, 2012 – Bonus Photo
Jelly Belly mix
I’d like to believe that these are healthier for me when I need a sweet fix. I realize that this may not be the case.

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  1. Joanne says

    January 19, 2012 at 7:24 am

    I think the question I get asked most is how I manage to balance school, lab, running, and blogging…and it really is not because I’m particularly balanced but because I handle things kind of the way you wrote about. When I’m in lab, I think about lab and put my all into it. But the second I walk out that door, I’m out. The same kind of goes for everything else! It’s really the only way to live and not be overrun with guilt!

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One bag or arugula
One container of cherry tomatoes 
Quarter pound of hard salami
8 Oz of fresh mozzarella
One small red onion
1/3 cup banana peppers 
Handful of fresh basil
Half cup Italian salad dressing
3 T Kewpie mayo
2 T red wine vinegar 
Sea salt and black pepper

Chop it all up, add a half box of ditalini pasta, cooked. Mix to combine.

Recipe from GrilledCheeseSocial.
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