#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨
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Recipe: Spaghetti Carbonara

May 23, 2012 · Narrative

pasta-filled pantry shelf
There comes a point in every home cook’s life when you have amassed a little collection of go-to recipes.

For those nights when you just can’t bear to think about dinner.

For those too-busy-already days when you can’t handle stopping at the grocery store.

And my favorite reason?

For those days when unexpected company comes for dinner.

Last night was one of those days.

Another round of rain leading to cancelled soccer practice and an unexpected free night.  Paving the way to a spour-of-the-moment dinner with friends.

When you have a well-stocked pantry (the merits of which we have talked about here, here, here, here and here), on-the-fly dinner plans needn’t induce stress.

Most of us have bacon, pasta, and eggs on hand.  And so it becomes Spaghetti Carbonara.

Easy to make.  Kid-friendly.  Low-maintenance, leaving you time to chat with friends while cooking.  And better still?  Finishing dinner with newly minted members of the Clean Plate Club.

Spaghetti Carbonara was one of my mom’s go-to dishes when we were kids.  I make it probably once a month (it’s now one of Mystic’s daughter’s favorites as well), but I don’t use a recipe.  It’s not rocket science.  But last night, I did some quick searching for recipes, curious to see others’ methods, and the end result was a little bit of this, a little bit of that, and a sum total of deliciousness.

Spaghetti Carbonara.  Nothing new.  Super simple.  But special enough to afford us a fun evening with friends that was low on chaos.

Well, as low on chaos as it can be with four kids running around the house with fake swords, makeshift pinatas, and rousing games of hide-and-seek.

I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Tomorrow?  Advocating for your children.
Friday?  Heading down the Jersey shore for the long weekend?  We’ll share one of our new favorite stops.

Spaghetti Carbonara
Recipe courtesy of Cate O’Malley

  • 1 pound spaghetti
  • 1 tablespoon olive oil
  • 8 slices bacon, cooked and diced; 2 tablespoons bacon grease reserved
  • 1 tablespoon olive oil
  • 1 onion, chopped
  • 3 cloves garlic, minced
  • 4 eggs
  • 2 cups grated Parmesan cheese
  1. In a large pot of boiling salted water, cook spaghetti pasta until al dente. Drain well, reserving 1/2 cup of pasta water. Toss with 1 tablespoon of olive oil, and set aside.
  2. Meanwhile in a large skillet, cook chopped onion in the reserved bacon fat and 1 tablespoon olive oil.  Cook over medium heat until onion is translucent. Add minced garlic, and cook 1 minute more.
  3. Add cooked bacon to pan; add cooked and drained spaghetti. Toss to coat, adding more olive oil if it seems dry or is sticking together.
  4. In a separate bowl, beat eggs, and then add the Parmesan cheese.  Mix thoroughly.  Add the spaghetti mixture and mix well with tongs or large forks.
  5. Add reserved pasta water as necessary to achieve desired level of creaminess (I usually add up to a 1/3 cup).
  6. Serve immediately.
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  1. Maureen @ Orgasmic Chef says

    May 24, 2012 at 4:33 am

    This is a favorite of mine when I just don’t have the oomph to cook. This is real comfort food for me.

    Reply
  2. Joanne says

    May 24, 2012 at 6:43 am

    I tend to go for risotto when I have guests/randomly need to cook a meal quickly because I can make it without a recipe. I’ve made a few carbonaras in my day and it’s a great go-to as well!

    Reply
  3. paula says

    May 24, 2012 at 7:48 am

    Spaghetti Carbonara was one of the first more complicated, non-baking, recipes I followed step by step when I was young. I think it was in Seventeen Magazine (which doesn’t sound right so I might be wrong about that). It was so good but it was years until I made it again.

    Two weeks ago I made carbonara with homemade chorizo. Just the chorizo, pasta, eggs, cream and salt and pepper – no cheese. It was heavenly.

    Reply
  4. chris says

    May 24, 2012 at 8:00 am

    OMG you know this is my favorite.

    Reply
    • Cate O'Malley says

      May 24, 2012 at 9:24 am

      I remembered as soon as I saw your name pop up … now you can make it yourself! ;) Or come and visit us and I’ll make it for you. The kids keep asking about you…

      Reply

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I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛

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#flowertherapy might be right up there with #water #flowertherapy might be right up there with #watertherapy.  Love passing the time in secret wildflower patches. As you do. 🌸
I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon I remarked how pretty that tiny sliver of the moon was on the way home tonight, and my friend pulled over right away so I could grab a photo. That’s when someone really knows you! It was just too beautiful to resist. 🌙
Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ C Weekend photos in review, old school style. ✨ 
Context: 1/ picture perfect weekend, 2/ threw together a quick meal w udon noodles, steak and broccoli, so good, 3/ the sun reflections on this painting struck me today, looked like a cross 4/ it takes all afternoon but nothing like Sunday Gravy, 5/ six months old, 6/ when he wants some serious zzzz’s, he covers his eye with his ears, the cutest, 7/ breakfast pastries at @coniglios
I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New I have plenty of reusable shopping bags since New Jersey banned the plastic ones last year. But when I spied this beauty for a buck, how could I resist? It just is so darn happy, which makes me happy. The little things aren’t so little. 💛
Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged Cheers to the weekend! This may look like a staged photo, but Lola just has ZERO boundaries and Clifford is exceptionally patient. 😂
I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s I’ve been on a smoked salmon kick lately (it’s so good for you), so when I saw that a local patisserie has a smoked salmon croissant available (weekends only), I added it to my list of things to seek out. I popped into @chocolatinenj early on Mother’s Day and was rewarded with this deliciousness. Layers of soft flaky croissant dough, tender smoked salmon, light whipped cream, thinly sliced red and green onion slivers and dotted with capers… it was every bit as amazing as you’d imagine it would be. If you’re local, don’t sleep on this one. 😋
Weekend photos in review, the belated edition. 1/ Weekend photos in review, the belated edition.

1/ hit up a few yard sales and snagged this beautiful pasta dish from Italy with my favorite color for a buck, 2/ and one of these printer trays came home with me too, 3/ pre Mother’s Day celebrations with 30 local moms, 4/ finished the weekend supervising furniture assembly
Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd bir Today would have been my friend Cathy’s 53rd birthday. Unfortunately she’s not here to celebrate because she died suddenly at age 49. I think of her often … every Mother’s Day because we spent most of them together since her husband worked weekends … when I discover a new food adventure (we once did a day long donut crawl) … when I’m sharing a special time with my kids knowing that her then-11 year old is growing up without her. Before she passed, I always appreciated every day, but since then, even more so. You never know what the next day can bring, so relish in the sunshine, surprise rainstorms, making wishes over railroad tracks and all the wonderful randomness life can throw your way. Don’t waste a single second, say yes, live on the outskirts of your comfort zone, laugh often, tell people you love them, give eight second hugs, and squeeze every ounce of joy you can out of life. Do it for the people who can’t. ✨

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