Truth be told, these are my favorite types of meal Truth be told, these are my favorite types of meals… platters where you can just pick at them while sipping wine and catching up with a friend. Chances are, if you come over for a meal, you’re getting an assortment of things to nosh on, maybe a mix of homemade appetizers… but just an array of deliciousness you can snack on whilst enjoying the evening. 

I’ve been wanting to make a lox platter for awhile now, so here we are. I sprinkled some Everything But the Bagel seasoning onto smoked lox and then added sliced cucumbers and radishes to the platter along with sliced bialys and crackers. Dipping items are a must so I included hummus and tzatziki. A fun platter just to nibble from, but a bialys sandwich with everything stuffed in it was pretty perfect too. Hope that gave you a little bit of inspo for something you can easily whip up too!
I had planned another type of post tonight, but in I had planned another type of post tonight, but in light of today’s news, it just doesn’t feel right. Some days it can be hard to find the sunshine, especially a day like today. I can’t make sense as to why things like today continue to happen while people spend copious amounts of energy worrying about banning books and drag shows. Make it make sense. Just make it fucking make sense. It doesn’t. You can’t. Until it does, use your voice. Show up to meetings. Sign the petitions. Text ACT to 644-33 to get involved (I did). Be so loud that you can’t be ignored, until things change. Thirteen school shootings this year. When is enough, enough?
Weekend photos in review, old school edition. Cont Weekend photos in review, old school edition.
Context: 1) Lola has zero chill in the car, 2) fulfilling request for Chicken Parm Penne with Vodka Sauce, 3) Sunday vibes 4) my favorite porchetta sandwich 5) from @butlerandtheboard 6) affirmations, 7) the sun was out today
Just like the moon, you’re whole no matter what Just like the moon, you’re whole no matter what phase you’re in. ✨ Got this one back in September and it’s one of my favorites. I sometimes forget it’s there until I get a random flash of it.
Happy #NationalPuppyDay to these two. I used to ca Happy #NationalPuppyDay to these two. I used to call Clifford an asshat, because he basically was. But there’s a new asshat in town… 🙄 Clifford is now a freaking rockstar. His tumor and age have slowed him down a LOT and he virtually never misbehaves, and we are seriously so proud of him. Lola, on the other hand, is still full blown PUPPY. Tonight I’m assembling a gate to replace the wooden one she ate through. 😂 Berners love wood and she is OBSESSED with being in the kitchen. So one new metal gate coming right up as soon as I can figure out how to put it together.
Last week when I met the owners of the new French Last week when I met the owners of the new French bakery in town, I told them how happy I was that they were opening … because now I had an endless source for gifts for my mom’s future birthdays and Christmases. She was born in Paris and we’ve grown up with a healthy appreciation for French things … starting with their pastries and baguettes, but so much more. My daughter took her first trip to Paris last year and thoroughly enjoyed the croissants there and she deemed the ones at @chocolatinenj just as perfect. No surprise there since the owner is a French pastry chef! If you’re local and haven’t been, do make a point to stop in and visit. They’re open Wednesday through Sunday and have a wide selection of sweet and savory items and a few French retail selections as well. We’ve tried the macarons, the Croque Monsieur, the croissants, the tomato tarts, the baguette … basically we’re working our way through their display case in due time. Don’t miss this one - enjoy!
People complain about how much time is spent on ph People complain about how much time is spent on phones sometimes, but if it wasn’t for phones. I wouldn’t have these awesome little snippets of them growing up. I only wish I had more. Appreciate and document the little mundane things, for they are the very fabric of your life.
happy Spring, friends! Y’all know how long I’v happy Spring, friends! Y’all know how long I’ve been waiting for the seasons to change and I’m so excited that Mother Nature was on board today! ☀️ There is nothing like the energy from the sun and it makes me happy. Hope you got some today!
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On Parenting and Wanting to Hit the Pause Buttom

June 3, 2013 · Narrative

UntitledThere are a million times that I find myself wanting to hit the pause button.

And, for some reason, never more so than the past week or two.

Particularly with Madeline.

Oh this girl.

Because all she has been doing lately is showing me how much she is growing up.

And it tugs on my heart something fierce.

And I am mostly not ready.

Not one speck.

I just want to freeze time and keep them little forever.

Now, instead of walking her into school, she asked me if I would drop her off out front so she could walk in by herself.

The first time she asked last week, I ended up moments later at my office desk in tears.

Because while as a parent, one of our jobs is to grow these little people up to be fiercely independent.

I am not ready.

Not now.

So not now.

Now she has special friendships with boys. Gives them bracelets to wear. And plots with her girlfriends to find out who likes who. To help them. Because her girlfriends are too shy to find out if the boy that she likes, likes her. She talks about who has crushes on who. But is very quick to tell me that these boys (and one in particular) are just friends of hers.

And man, I feel like I’m talking about a twelve year old.

But no. Just a little older-than-her-five-years little girl.

UntitledThe kids growing up and moving out has been on my mind a lot lately. And while both of them fiercely attest to wanting to live with me forever.

They won’t. Not if I’ve done my job right.

So in the meantime, I am going to do what I do best.

Focus on this precise moment. One day at a time.

One hour.

One minute.

Just this one.

And enjoy them for every second while they’re little and still need me.

Because, for now, this is the very best time of all.

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  1. Joanne says

    June 4, 2013 at 6:24 am

    I can’t even imagine but it really is crazy to see how much Maddie has grown up even in the short time that I’ve known her!
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    • Cate O'Malley says

      June 4, 2013 at 8:39 am

      For sure. You and your Benadryl are overdue for a visit!
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  2. patsy says

    June 4, 2013 at 8:30 am

    I know just how you feel! Just looking into my almost 10 y.o. face the other day I realized how it’s changing and he’s looking so much more grown-up to me… since he’s my youngest, it tugs even more at my heart… my 11 y.o. has become so much more mature lately and will be moving on up to middle school next year – while I’m excited for him, I can’t help but think these next few years are going to fly by in the blink of an eye! Definitely have to enjoy every little moment as they come!
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  3. Cate O'Malley says

    June 4, 2013 at 8:41 am

    Yes! Nick graduates in a few weeks and will be going to a new school, and I’m sure I’m going to be a mess at their award ceremony. And she’ll be going on a bus in the Fall. Ack – make it stop!
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  4. KS says

    June 4, 2013 at 11:44 am

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    Couldn’t agree with you more!

    Reply
  5. Sarah W. Caron (Sarah's Cucina Bella) says

    June 5, 2013 at 10:30 pm

    Yep. So there too.
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I’ve been wanting to make a lox platter for awhile now, so here we are. I sprinkled some Everything But the Bagel seasoning onto smoked lox and then added sliced cucumbers and radishes to the platter along with sliced bialys and crackers. Dipping items are a must so I included hummus and tzatziki. A fun platter just to nibble from, but a bialys sandwich with everything stuffed in it was pretty perfect too. Hope that gave you a little bit of inspo for something you can easily whip up too!
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